How to be more attractive
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LIFE BALANCE HEALTH CHECK
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7 CHECKS TO IMPROVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
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Making an honest appraisal of yourself and of your life and taking steps to make improvements can have a dramatic effect on how you interact with others.
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Answer the following questions as honestly as you can
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STEP 1 - ENERGY
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What do you do that you would describe as fun?
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How much fun do you have? How much flow of natural energy does this fun generate?
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When in conversation, what interesting personal experiences can you share with others?
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STEP 2 - WORK
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How much fulfilment do you get from your work?
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Do you live to work or work to live?
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How passionate are you about your work?
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How much does your work allow you to be your true self? If not, what line of work would allow this?
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Have you discovered any of your hidden abilities in your work?
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STEP 3 - RELATIONSHIPS
How loving are your "special" relationships?
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How often do you tell your loved ones how much you love them? How do they respond? How loved do you feel in your relationships?
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What (if any) old grudges are you holding? Who do you blame? How does this manifest?
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In what ways do your friends and colleagues support your hopes and dreams? Are you being your true self when you are in the company of your closest friends and family?
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STEP4 - FINANCES
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How stable are you financially?
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If you were more financially secure, how would this affect your relationship with your partner? Would you change partners?
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What long term financial strategy do you have?
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STEP 5 - SELF IMAGE
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What do you see when you look in the mirror? How do you feel about yourself?
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Do you take care of yourself physically? What can you do to improve your fitness levels?
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Do you dress to enhance your attractive features?
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STEP 6 - GROWTH & PERSPECTIVE
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Are you a half empty or a half full person?
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How do you feel about making mistakes? How much do you learn from past experiences?
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How do you feel about making mistakes? How much do you learn from past experiences?
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STEP 7 - TAKE ACTION!!
To complete the health check, give each of these areas a score out of ten, and ask yourself......
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Which areas of my life am I most happy with?
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Which areas of my life am I least happy with?
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What are the first three steps I am going to take to contribute to my goal of living a life that I love.
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Identify who you can share these actions with. Commit to taking these steps in the next 7 days.
Finally, ask yourself.
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On a scale of 1(lowest) to 10(highest), how committed am I to taking these steps?
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If not a 10, ask yourself what has to happen for this score to become a 10?
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Good luck!
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